I Don't Even Know How to Feel About this Shit...

...why is it when you stop talking with/stop dating/stop fucking with a chick, she does something with the next dude in like a week, that you'd been asking her since you've known her?

This post is sparked by a conversation I had with a friend of mine last night even though she's not the greatest offender of this certain set of circumstances...

The Back Story: So I met this chick, let's call her Nuggets... when we first met, it was on some 'let's-be-cool-see-where-it-goes-and-go-from-there' type shit... after a while, we were hanging out more and more and things were progressing ok... things never got too physical because anytime I would try to get something started, she would say she had to leave... sometimes, I wouldn't even try anything... I'd just kiss her and she'd just act like things were getting too hot and heavy... and it used to have a brotha frustrated... I mean 30-minute-cold-shower frustrated... but I wasn't going to press her... if she wasn't ready to go there, then she wasn't ready... I wasn't gonna be that type of dude... after a while, things kinda fizzled out as she got busy with work and school and then I got busy with work and school... then of course, I started dating Nicole so then things really came to a standstill... fast forward a few months and she keeps saying how she's not trying to be disrespectful of my girl's space so she doesn't wanna come through too often or stay too long and what have you...

So last night, she tells me she just up and let some friend of hers smash... like... randomly... all he did was ask and she was like "ok..." and it went down... now, from what she tells me, it was really bad... he only lasted a couple minutes and was really small or whatever, but that's not the point... I mean, WTF Nuggets? LOL... and I KNOW you're reading this so I'm not going to say anything I didn't say last night but come on, B!!! How is it that you can let this dude smash but if I kiss you for longer than five seconds, you get all nervous and have to leave...? And it's not like I'm trippin' off her fucking this dude because I'm really not... it's just the way it happened... it's not like he had to work for extra hard for it... he just asked and you said yes? Unfair is what that is... LOL

But like I said, she's not even the greatest offender... it happens with each and every girl I talk to or date...


Actual things I've been told:
"Ok, i tried head for the first time and it wasn't really that bad!" (I couldn't even get her to fucking look at that shit... she was on some "are you hard? put it in" type shit...

"I just got my boyfriend some Bobcats tickets... it was really fun... you and me definitely should have gone but I thought it was gonna be boring..." (I BEGGED her to go with me to a NBA game and she would always say it was too far and she'd be bored because she doesn't like basketball)

"Well, I think I'm just going to try it and see what happens... I know I said I wouldn't do a long-distance thing but I figure it can't hurt to try..." (This shit happened when I met this girl who went to school in Florida... she came up to NC during the summer and I straight up fell in love with this chick... but she was totally against long-distance relationships... however, the following TWO summers, she came back to NC, met dudes and did the long-distance thing with them when she went back to school... that's exactly why I don't talk to her anymore... LOL)


Females be on some other shit...



Ya'll be easy...