Would You Do Something You Hate for Someone You Love?

I guess my feelings are this: I'm a very big believer in the power of words... to me, hate is a VERY strong and powerful word... the connotation I have with "hate" is that under no circumstances other than death or maiming, would I do this shit... so when I think about this question, the answer is irrevocably "hell the fuck no." Allow me to put it in perspective...

I dislike okra. I think it's gross. I wouldn't eat it for anything less than $1,000... now if my girlfriend, wife, etc slaved all day and made some type of okra casserole-type dish, would I try it? Of course... but that's only because I strongly dislike okra...

However, if she came up to me and was like "the only way I can cum is if I watch you get gang-raped by four diesel ass niggas" something I clearly HATE, then she would simply go without... (NOTE: I have not been gang-raped before so all the "how do you know you wouldn't like it if you haven't tried it" nonsense that I'm sure is to follow is unnecessary... what heterosexual and sane man would like to get gang-raped by some dudes?) but maybe that's too extreme of a comparison but for some reason it's the first example that popped in my head... I really need some help... good Lord...

In any event, I don't think it's fair for anybody to do something they hate for somebody they love... I just feel like it leads to resentment and I don't want anybody resenting me... except it comes to fellatio...

Ya'll be easy...