Tuesday, March 10, 2009

I Really Hate Celebrity Gossip...

...but I feel compelled to speak on this whole Chris Brown-Robyn fiasco... before I go on, let me ALSO state that I'm more than a little bothered than Rihanna isn't her real name... I thought that was like a dope Carribean name or something and was disgusted to find out that it wasn't... lol... well maybe not disgusted, but I did kinda feel okie-doked... I digress...

Ummmmmmmmm... I just don't know how to feel about this thing... I wasn't really even gonna speak on it any more than I already had just because I hate to get caught up in speculation... and I hate when people speak on something when they don't have all the facts because in the end, they end up looking dumb as fuck for criticizing somebody without knowing the whole damn story (i.e. the Duke Lacrosse rap case from a few years back)... in any event, it's been reported that this three-page text message that set off the whole thing was Chris Brown's manager... she was trying to get Breezy to come thru and smash* since apparently he used to bag that back in the day, but Chris and the manager have both said that wasn't the case... but in any event, that set Rihanna off to hit homie with a fucking stiletto and then the whole fight started from there...
*why do women get mad at a dude for something another woman wsends to their man? I never understood that... if a girl sends me something talking about she wants me to fuck or be with her or whatever and I don't respond or I just simply ignore that, why are you mad at me? Along the same lines, why is it when your man cheats, you get mad at the other woman and not the boyfriend? It doesn't make any sense... I never understood why, in that same breath, a man will cheat on his woman, his woman finds out and then says she forgives them and wants to stay together but will cheat on him and think its justified because he cheated first... if you're going to hold a grudge, why not just break up??

Frankly, none of that surprises me because I figured that she had to do something for him to just start beating her up while he was driving... I don't care who you are or how mad you get, you're not gonna take your eyes off the road to start knocking somebody's ass out... I've been mad plenty of times, but not enough to start right-hooking somebody while I'm supposed to be driving...

Now, did Breezy overdo it? Yeah, he did... but I don't think it was just an all out beating like people keep saying... painting him out to be Ike Turner and all this other shit like he just beat her senseless for no apparent reason... and before I hear anymore nonsense about Chris being a man and how a man should NEVER hit a woman and how he's a coward to act otherwise, let me direct you to a recent article I saw on bossip about a FOOTBALL PLAYER who was stabbed in the neck and the head by his girlfriend... or the Real Housewife of New York who blacked her husband eye and got charged with a misdemeanor...

Gino Hayes goes 6-foot-1 and 226 pounds... so I don't even wanna hear the argument that a man is bigger, stronger, able to take more pain, etc... if a dude that big can get stabbed by his girl (not to mention the many accounts on that show Snapped where women MURDER their husbands) then why can't a dude defend himself? Homie gets his eye blackened and it's a misdemeanor? If it was the other way around, I guarantee you it would be a felony... I feel like these are the things that are often overlooked...

So before I hear anything about a man NEVER being justified in knocking the pure shit out of a woman, trust and believe, you stabbing me with ANYTHING is means to put hands on your ass... I'm not saying that's what was going on in the Chris Brown-Rihanna thing but I'm just saying... too often, at least in my opinion, women get on their high horse and think they can say or do whatever they want to a man with the belief that he has absolutely no reason to hit her ass and that's just incorrect... if you don't think a man should hit you, keep your damn hands to yourself...

Ya'll be easy...

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