Is Porn Cheating...?

I was over at Bossip and they had this story about a lady who came home and "caught" her dude jerking off to some porn... so she commenced to kicking his ass and cutting him with a kitchen knife...



Isn't that a little excessive?



I mean, it's one thing if you're doing it so much that it's a problem... or if you would rather watch porn than fuck your girl/wife, etc... but if you're girl isn't there and you're horny, isn't masturbating better than having another girl up in there? I guess I've just never thought of them as the same thing... if I came home and my girl was playing with herself, I can't imagine myself being like "Yo, what the fuck are you doing? You playing with yourself when I'm not around?!? Where's my goddamn knife?!?!!!" LOL... see even putting it like that makes it sounds ridiculous... it's just masturbation... I just think it's insane that this lady was allowed to kick this dude's ass over some porn...

In my opinion, it goes back to insecurity and an unwillingness to do what your man wants... because 1) if you're secure with your shit, there's no reason for you to be worried about some lady on a videotape that your husband will never meet/never fuck and probably never even have a chance with... and 2) if your man likes head and you hate it, how you gonna be mad at him for still wanting it? Instead of cheating on you, he's compromised by just watching it... if women would do even half the things they do in porn then the whole industry would collapse (well, maybe not because you still have those dudes who get no cakes that buy a new tape every Tuesday afternoon... LOL)

I guess it should all be talked about in the beginning of a relationship... if it's gonna be a problem and you REALLY like porn, then clearly that relationship isn't for you... LOL